The missiles aren't that much of a pain really but i do miss it since i used to play X-Wing and Wing Commander. I liked fireing flares at someones cockpit chasing me most of all. The chaff could be used right after marrying along with the (just married sign). But i was wondering if i was just the lonely soul thinkin about stuff like that. I don't think it is essentially but some fun can be gained from it? Right?

Right

but this topic has been proposed MANY times over and all invariably end without a good strong argument either way.

Let it drop, they're not comming for a while. Maybe after RELEASE

In general, anything that has been in any other game has been posted as a suggestion scores if not hundreds of times. It's not like you are the only person ever to play X-Wing or Wing Commander. I believe they sold 100,000's of copies of those games, so you are definately not alone.