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Self Repair

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Nov 18, 2011 Phaserlight link
Well, I for one hold no malice against you, and hope that you stay and succeed as a player. Part of growing in forum maturity is learning to separate yourself from your suggestion. Disagreeing with one's argument has nothing to do with disagreeing with personality or experience.

On the flip side, perhaps you have been too quick to take someone else's disagreement as a personal attack. Try going back and reading through each thread carefully in a few days; there may have been no injury intended, at least initially. A certain amount of good natured ribbing goes on in these forums, partially because we've known each other for a while. I can see how it may be easy to perceive this as overly malicious, however, going back to what I said about separating yourself from your suggestion, you will see that none of us can harm you as much as your attitude about yourself.