Title says it all.

Now you have /buddy command for notifying you when friends and guildies come and go, but im not sure i want to be friends with everyone in my guild or VO. and guildie notifications is a nifty feature, almost like remebering the login-name :)

Make the buddy command a bit more special and not needed everytime a new member joins the guild.

Agreed. I'm buddies with half of VO, so it doesn't impact me TOO much, but more management features are ALWAYS good.

Yes.