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I was responding to this bit:
If we're going to respond to apologies and pledges to change objectionable behavior with scorn and provocation, what is the motivation for improvement?
In the post above, I explained my reasons for not accepting his apology. Because he's already showed a pattern of antisocial-apologize-antisocial-apologize cycle over and over, I see no point in praising and coddling him as you seem to think everyone should be doing. Am I not allowed to express a different viewpoint on matters and how to react to things? You seem to think dissent automatically equals a desire to induce drama.
Secondly, it's up to him to provide the motivation for self-improvement for himself. He's an adult for goodness sake, not your kid. He is responsible for his own actions and feelings. If he doesn't like what he reads from my posts, it's as simple as IGNORING me. If he doesn't like how he throws hissy fits, then he'll stop on his own terms.
If we're going to respond to apologies and pledges to change objectionable behavior with scorn and provocation, what is the motivation for improvement?
In the post above, I explained my reasons for not accepting his apology. Because he's already showed a pattern of antisocial-apologize-antisocial-apologize cycle over and over, I see no point in praising and coddling him as you seem to think everyone should be doing. Am I not allowed to express a different viewpoint on matters and how to react to things? You seem to think dissent automatically equals a desire to induce drama.
Secondly, it's up to him to provide the motivation for self-improvement for himself. He's an adult for goodness sake, not your kid. He is responsible for his own actions and feelings. If he doesn't like what he reads from my posts, it's as simple as IGNORING me. If he doesn't like how he throws hissy fits, then he'll stop on his own terms.
A simple What Lecter said, brah would have been easier to read, Joyless.
https://www.vendetta-online.com/x/msgboard/15/30783?page=2#369427
https://www.vendetta-online.com/x/msgboard/15/30783?page=2#369427
Let us play star wars battlefront, that way jordan can get a bit more kills than he/she will obviously get in vo rar.
Let us play star wars battlefront...
I think the following is more his(her?) style:
I think the following is more his(her?) style:
Okay, I think we're on to other things here. Good talk.